Monday, September 03, 2007

Hope and Encouragement ....

Two women, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One was allowed to sit up in her bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from her lungs. Her bed was next to the room's only window. The other woman had to spend all her time flat on her back. The women talked for hours on end. They spoke of their families, their homes, their jobs, their travels.
Every afternoon when the woman in the bed by the window could sit up, she would pass the time by describing to her roommate all the things she could see outside the window.
The woman in the other bed began to live for those one-hour periods where her world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.
As the woman by the window described the scenery in exquisite detail, the woman on the other side of the room would close her eyes and imagine the picturesque scene; a park with a lovely lake, ducks and swans playing on the water while children sailed their model boats, young lovers walking arm in arm amidst flowers of every color, the city skyline.
One warm afternoon the woman by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other woman couldn't hear the band - she could see it in her mind's eye.
Days and weeks passed.
One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the woman by the window, who had died peacefully in her sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away.
As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other woman asked if she could be moved next to the window.
Slowly, painfully, she propped herself up on one elbow to take her first look at the real world outside. She strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed.
It faced a blank wall. She asked the nurse what could have compelled her deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window.

--- Author Unknown

8 comments:

jordanmcclements said...

Is it cos she was blind or something?

At any rate - is there a sentence missing off the end?

Habit Guy said...

I think that I have read this story before. I am wondering why you posted it.

Before I became a professor of psychology my grad student friends and I would sit around and talk about this very theme. Is it right to bring someone false comfort?

The harm and the benefit are in the story: The woman's life was enriched when she heard the accounts of the happenings outside. That benefit is not to be ignored. But how did she feel when she realized the stories were made up? Was she angry? Or happy that her roommate had been so considerate?

Neina said...

Hi,

I found you blog when I googled a quote by Gandhi, and I'm so glad to have stumbled upon it! Fun and inspirational, I will definitely bookmark this and revisit! (And comment more specifically, this is just a general what-a-great-blog ;-) )

Two things:
Was that the end of the story about the two old ladies? It seemed a bit abrupt to me.

The other thing, how wonderful to find more moleskine:rs! I only recently converted but with all the more force...

All the best,
Neina

Angie Dixon said...

I had read this several times before, and it always gives me chills. What compelled her, indeed? I hope I will always have a view out the window of my life the way this woman did.

Allen said...

Habbit Guy,
I like your point. I think I would have been both angry and happy.

Allen

Allen said...

Neina,

The endin was meant to be abrupt to make you think - I think :)

I love my moleskine notebook ... I dont know why? Why do you love yours?

Allen

Allen said...

Thanks to all who commented. I do read them all!

Allen

Arpit said...

I think you have not finished the story yet. I have read the similar story before and in that version, the lady who was near to window before was blind and was not even able to see the wall. The conclusion of the story was she wanted to make the other lady happy despite of her situation.

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